The problems with a VICTIM MENTALITY!
A victim mentality is one where it is always someone else’s or something else’s faults for the bad or undesired things that happen to you in life. Going beyond this, a victim mindset will grow to expect that things will go wrong, because bad things have happened in the past.
A victim will generally blame other people for their life circumstances and as the reason why things have worked out the way in which they have done. Victims LOVE to b the center of attention and will seldom take responsibility for their actions.
The most effective way to overcome this highly destructive victim mentality is by taking responsibility for every action and circumstance that you could possibly take ownership of in and throughout your life – seeking in every way possible to take responsibility for your life whilst growing to accept that although you may not be able to control your life circumstances, you’ll be able to control your response to the things that happen to you 100% of the time!
When we embrace this attitude towards life, life’s circumstances will no longer control us and we find this sense of freedom in knowing that you have always been free to choose how you respond to things!